The young girl couldn't bear the humiliation and ran away from home, yet your first reaction wasn't to take the initiative to console her out of sympathy for the huge wrong she suffered, but to say that your parents marrying you off to someone you've never met was for your own good.
In his previous life, he had heard about a young girl who wanted to commit suicide by jumping into a river after being wronged at home. Those who came to persuade her talked non-stop about filial piety and considering her parents' feelings, which infuriated her so much that she jumped on the spot, headfirst.
Really, if Jiang Feng had come across such a situation, he wouldn't have hesitated to smash the heads of those who spouted such oppressive nonsense on the spot. It's easy to talk without feeling the pain.